Can “Canadian bacon” be had? I mean we crave it and eat it, but is it really ours?
Can a “lover” be had? We miss them and need them, but do we own them?
So if what we’re having is just today’s cut of a bacon and this minute’s touch of a lover, what are we really having?
I could be French and say that if it’s really good, it’ll linger for a life-time. But French get bored the most (hence new perfumes, fashion and cuisine).
So if the French can’t keep them and we, for sure, can’t have them, should we just pig out on them and let them have us?